Custody
Custody is divided into two main types: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody refers to the authority to make important decisions regarding a child’s health, education, and general welfare. Courts typically prefer that both parents share joint legal custody, encouraging cooperative decision-making for the benefit of the child. Physical custody, on the other hand, relates to where the child lives most of the time. This can be shared fairly equally between both parents (joint physical custody), or one parent may have primary custody if the child primarily resides with them. Regardless of the arrangement, the court's central concern is always the child’s best interest. The law does not assume one gender is better suited for parenting; both parents are seen as essential to a child’s life and development. Courts also operate under the principle that children benefit from consistent, meaningful time with both parents unless circumstances indicate otherwise.
Visitation
Parents are encouraged to agree on a parenting and visitation plan without the court’s involvement. If assistance is needed, the court provides free mediation services, though both parents must first complete a co-parenting workshop—a three-hour seminar designed to center the child’s well-being and teach cooperative parenting strategies. In Monterey County, there are two forms of mediation: Confidential (1st Tier) and Non-Confidential (2nd Tier). Once a petition is filed and both parents have attended the seminar, 1st Tier mediation can be scheduled. If the parents come to an agreement during this process, a draft agreement is created; if neither parent withdraws their consent within 10 days, it becomes a formal court order. In contrast, 2nd Tier mediation requires a judge’s order and allows the mediator to submit formal recommendations to the court. Regardless of whether the parents agree on a parenting plan, the co-parenting workshop (or a comparable program if one parent lives elsewhere) must be completed before a final judgment is issued, and proof must be submitted to the court.
Child Support
Both parents share a legal obligation to support their children financially. Child support is generally calculated using a state-mandated formula that considers each parent’s gross income, tax status, certain allowable deductions, the number of children, and how much time the non-custodial parent spends with them. Courts rely on specific software to generate guideline support amounts. If the Department of Child Support Services (DCSS) is involved, their tools must be used. While judges can adjust the amount under certain conditions, deviations from the guideline formula are relatively rare. If DCSS is involved, support is typically collected via wage garnishment, though other collection methods may be used when DCSS is not handling the case.